Step 4 Interactive Worksheet
Review of Harms Other Than Sexual
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Instructions for completion
1. List the people you hurt through conduct other than sexual conduct. Complete Column 1 from top to bottom before moving on.
2. Write what you did. Complete Column 2 from top to bottom.
3. Mark which part of self caused the hurt: self-esteem, security, ambitions, or sex instinct.
4. Then look for your own mistakes. Where were you selfish, dishonest, self-seeking and frightened, or inconsiderate?
5. Use “What’s my part in it?” to write honestly about your own role, responsibility, conduct, reaction, fear, dishonesty, selfishness, or part in the harm.
| # | COLUMN 1 Who did I hurt? |
COLUMN 2 What did I do? |
COLUMN 3 — AFFECTS MY SELF | COLUMN 4 — EXACT NATURE OF MY WRONGS, FAULTS, MISTAKES, DEFECTS, SHORTCOMINGS | WHAT’S MY PART IN IT? | ||||||||||||
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Social Instinct | Security Instinct | Sex Instinct | Ambitions | Selfish | Dishonest | Self-seeking & frightened | Inconsiderate | ||||||||||
| Self-Esteem | Personal Relationships | Material | Emotional | Acceptable Sex Relations | Hidden Sex Relations | Social | Security | Sexual | Ambitions | ||||||||
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